I have a question for anyone willing to help. My sister in law lives with my wife and I, she admittedly told me that she likes to go swimming naked when she is alone, like myself. How do I convince her to go swimming with me, while my wife is away, and not give her the idea that I want to have sex? I would love to sleep with her but will settle with skinny dipping. I don't want to push the issue to much.
I've learned the hard way that it's best being totally upfront and honest, even about the little things. I made the mistake of letting something slide, since nothing "wrong" happened and I really didn't think much about it, but when it came out, I was in the doghouse, since I must have been trying to hide something since I hadn't shared or explained everything right off.
Rule #1 - ALWAYS discuss & clear EVERYTHING with your spouse 1st
Rule #2 - When in doubt, refer to Rule #1
Unless you're comfortable with the prospect of D-I-V-O-R-C-E, having all of your worldly possessions divided up & having to live on half of your gross income, do not risk betraying the trust regardless of what your libido might be screaming at you.
Looks like you could be backing yourself into a corner, best to talk to your wife. Why did sis admit to you? Why do you only want to swim with her & without wife? Not give her the idea you want sex...yes well.
Why not find out if the wife would like to skinny dip with you FIRST? If she will, maybe after a little coaxing, you can eventually have her and her sister "dip" with oneanother, and then eventually introduce the concept of a 3-some. Probably best if it's you & the wife and sis arrives at poolside with a surprised
I agree with neoshaboy. Hiding anything from your wife is a recipe for disaster. Does your wife know about both you and your siter in law's desire to swim nude? If she does then just ask her if she minds, if she doesn't mind then problem solved, if she does mind, then don't do it.