We recently had a situation where we were outted so to speak by our teenagers. My husband and I are occassional swingers and have another couple that have been close friends for 20 years. My then 12 yr old daughter while putting away laundry in my dresser found an old video of the 4 of us all "together". It showed everything in great detail. She watched it for several months before being caught by her older brother then 13. He blackmailed her into letting him watch it with her. They watched it together for aobut 2 months until I caught them. It was very awkward. It created tons of questions! I answered all of them honestly even though very embaressed! Since then we have been very open regarding nudity and sexuality.