The nudist place here is family oriented and they do not allow singles, gawking, or any public sexuality at all or you get tossed out.
The is also a clothing optional place run by swingers where anything goes. I'm single and new at this, so tge nudist place was not an option. But when I visited the optional place, the conversations seemed have sex hanging over it with questions about status, etc and not how the football season was going, etc.
I felt uncomfortable and ended up hanging out at a quiet part of the park enjoying the sun, nature and walking my dog. I met a few people then that just wanted to talk and that felt better.
Is it because I'm new or is it a question of "do you get naked to meet people and enjoy sex" or "do you meet people and enjoy being naked"?