i agree. i've noticed too. and it is frustrating. sad to say...i suspect there are far more "players" and "wannabes" here than genuine folk. i've only been a member here for a week, but that's been my experience.
me...i tend to like yahoo chat/messenger where i can keep my webcam up and running while i work...chat with folks who peek in for a minute. my ID is lil_tinkerboy if you or anyone else cares to peek, chat or cam back.