It's nice to see another genuine nudist here who wants to chat. There are a few nudists here who sincerely want friendship or to chat but it might take a bit of time to find them or they find you. Hang in there and you will connect with the sincere ones who are here to chat, share ideas, and learn about others.
Hi Krian, I had the same problem when I joined but I modified my profile and the "enquiries" soon dried up.
As far as free sites go, if you are on the NET and are NUDE then you can chat in a chatroom and make other arrangements if you like. Most of the services are free but there is a small fee for extras but it is small, less than 10 dollars. The forum pages are not as easy to look a t as here but hey it seems to be more regulated and genuine.
Hope you get it