I agree with Tommy that the obscene finger picture is not very welcoming. If there are women viewing your profile that may turn them off. Also you want a good looking woman. Many women who are good looking will not admit that they are and you need them to be paying members in your area. These are really hard to come by on this site that really isn't the largest site with active people. Hard to justify paying $30 a month so not really have live matches or men who are only interested in knowing if you are shaved and if you'll cam.