Whats with the dodgy threads in the forums? I don't remember them being here 3 years ago. For example
Watching porn with family/kids - WRONG
being nudist is great i often film my mom having sex - WRONG
There are many, many more. I mean how many peope need to ask if its ok to masturbate infront of your children? ITS WRONG!! There are far too many topics about sex within families. I hope to hell that these people are just bull sh**ing. Even if they are, here is not the place to discuss it.
And no, I'm not some bible bashing prude, I consider myself to be quite liberal. Being open about your body and human sexuality is perfectly healthy, but engaging in sexual activity in front of minors is illegal for a start.
I have to say though that there are also some very goo and usefull threads, but as soon as family of kids are mentioned many of them seem to turn sinister.
Am I alone in thinking these threads should be better moderated? Maybe.
It may be about time for NF.com to open another nudist site:
Many have noticed that there seem to be 2 broad differences between the present membership:
There are those who seriously frown on any activities that are not limited to simple sunbathing and simply living a nude life with no sexual overtones.
Then there are many who no doubt heartily approve of activities that include mutual and group masturbation of both sexes within their existing families, and total body massages of all body parts of each sex within their families - just to cite 2 examples.
So why not consider an additional nudist site, say, with a premium price, for those more sexually uninhibited members? That way they can express themselves much more openly without giving offense to the more conservative members who can continue with the present site.
There are many "in-betweeners", of course, and some may wish to be members of both the more conservative and the more liberal site.
I think this is worth considering because the 2 types of people on this present NF.com site never will be able to reconcile themselves to each others' outlooks: They are just too, too divergent.
Male erections at nudist gatherings are frowned on and so they should be because most gatherings are family get togethers. You seem to be confusing nudist events with swingers clubs. So different... I would believe youve never been to a nudist venue where there are respcetful rules and if youdon't abide you will be asked to leave. If a male gets an erection on his first visit he hopefully will uses mind and a towel or shorts to cover it up until it is lost... Women are definitely not ones wanting to see your erection but feel for their security if you want to go walking around showing off your prowess of manly hood... P
I was also beginning to think that there was too much bragging about sporting erections and other activities whilst parading up and down the beach. The justification being because it is a "natural" occurrence. Well pardon me, so is defecating and urinating, but I do not want someone doing it right in front of me or my wife on the beach.
Like everything else in life there is a time and a place for everything and deliberately posing with erections or engaging in blatant sexual activity on a nudist beach because it is "natural", is not one of them!
It is this sort of activity with its associated correspondence and comment that gives naturism a bad name and discourages people who would otherwise like to engage with naturism.
Wow..3 sane men, I thought I was the only one who thought some of the topics on here so wrong, and yes disgusting, this is supposed to be a nudist site, not for sexual deviances in the guise of family fun!!
I agree with you. I have no idea how many members are active on the site, but it seems that the majority of them are here to exchange sexual fantasies and hookup for online encounters. I realize that this is a social site and I expect to find people looking for more intimate encounters, but guess I also expect a little more class from people trying to attract others. What happened to making a good impression.
I guess I'm just sorry that there isn't a site dedicated to naturists, as opposed to nudists, and naturist issues.
No you are not alone in your thinking. i have commented a few times on the threads that mention children and sex in the same sentence.
this forum has had a change in that some think it is ok to involve their children to watch while they are having sex or encourage their children to masturbate in full view of the rest of the family.
To me that is teaching them the wrong standards and morals.