I like my penis to be semi erect as it looks a lot better.
Heading off to the beach in 2 days time as the weather in scotland seems to be improving. Looking forward to being able to walk along a beach with everything hanging out.
I think erections are perfectly normal and natural. When I go outside naked, I am usually fully erect when I am not around other people, but if I do get an erection in a public setting, I do not think it would be a bad thing as long as it doesn't turn into a sexual act. I would just act normal as if I had clothes on.
i don,t see it as to much of a problem,i,ve had numerous hard-ons on nude beaches if you don,t flash it about nobody cares , some like it! just be careful when kids are around tho! simple female i think you,re being a bit harsh there yes there are pervs about who think it,s good to flash hard-ons at everyone ,but don,t tar us all with the same brush!
your worng, youd have to be a guy to understand.
sometimes the wind hits you in a certain place and thats it.
i admit, i dont get spontainous erections as often as when i was going through puberty, but i still get them.
sometimes i dont even notive them ontil i move and something feels different.
I was worried about erections when I first started going to socially public nude beaches. It actually happened a few times. What did I do? I pretty much went into the water with my erection. If it persisted I masturbated and got rid of the fixation that was causing it.
Once I got rid of it, I was good to go to be in public with my nude cock.
After maybe one or 2 of those episodes, I was able to keep it down when I was participating in a public nude situation.
Bottom line - Once I got over the titillation of being nude in public, and got into being a true "NUDIST" I was able to easily get past the sexual aspect of nudity when in public., and keep it down. Being an old hand (male) I would imagine most know what I'm talking about.
Since the begining of time,man has had erections,both in private & in public.They would draw them on walls,We in this time paint them.So being nude,IT'S going to happen & why make a fus over something you were born with.An erection is just part of mother nature.It doesn't emply you are getting your jollie over sexual things.Mine gets
hard just from feeling the warmth from the sun.If i'm with someone & they say something about it i just roll over.
erections happen spontainously, even when there is nothing around to turn you on. that happens when the brain stops sending signals to your penis.
i used to get erections on the bus while going to school.
the only thing i dont like about erections is that they are hard o hide when you hav on no underwear
andhaving them for too long might cause cowper's fliud/precum to leak out, even though you dont even touch it. and i dotn want to get come all over the place
I sometimes have erections when I am at the beach, riding my cycle, working out at the gym or whatever.....but I like to celebrate this natural and wonderful body function that is nature's way of showing a positive reaction to stimulation. I also agree that it is also not right to flaunt an erection to an audience that may not appreciate the public display....but also, there are many audiences that do appreciate the sight. It all matters to environment, and I think we all are sensitive to the right environment!! Cheers. :)
I don't think there is anything to be embarassed about, its perfectly normal behavious.
Of course if the guy is flouting his erection in a sexual manner towards a particular person(s) then this should be viewed differently.
Several ladies have expressed their views that they enjoy seeing men who may have responded to seeing the lady in question naked which is considered flattering. As long the guy shows the lady some respect and does not start playing with himself then nature will take its course and will revert back to normal size again fairly quickly.
itsnbits35 write: I also agree as long as there are no children around and nothing sexual going on then an erection is a nice sight, just as breast are to men.
Wow! I'm really glad to read this, as well as the post by kasia_21 (#20).
I was curious about this subject when I first started going to nude beaches 10 years ago or so, and saw the same questions on forums then that I see here.
I think there are too few people educated in subjects like philosophy, and so don't understand things such as moral relativism. What we find normal is almost completely a product of our culture. But even now, I too am relieved to see women expressing acceptance of, and some even a little pleasure from, the casual, unpromoted erection. Because as comfortable as I am at a nude beach, I still feel constricted by thinking I have to discipline myself anytime I feel an erection coming on. It's a real relief to be a man and actually be accepted.
I don't see many opinions from U.S. women...what do you think?
There does seem to be many who like to display erections in public. The true nudist view is to not promote it. Roll over, go in the water or ignore it and it goes away. They say it rarely happens at nudist resorts but it does but most do not draw attention to it so most of the time it goes unnoticed.
I often go to a unofficial nude beach here in Pinellas County and have been for a while. On several occasions I have had an erection and just simply roll over. On one occasion I was walking back from the water and came upon two women who had just arrived. We started talking and I got an erection. I had no way to hide and they could tell I was embarressed. They said they didn't mind and it shortly went away.
We spent the afternoon talking and swimming. While I did get hard several other times, there was no sex, not that I wouldn't have. Erections happen and if handled correctly, it's not an issue.
the most thing that i don't understand is that it's ok for others to see you soft, but they don't want to see you hard?
if i am on the beach or the pool and i get hard i dont hide it, and I DONT CARE WHAT OTHER'S THINK,
I have no problems with 'erections in public'.
When I get a natural and spontaneous erection, I usually just let it be...
If I'm on a beach it often goes away nearly as quickly as it came up; like others have said before - you don't flaunt it, show it off, or parade it around - if there are too many people around for your peace of mind (not a problem where I go..), you can just roll over until it subsides..
When I have found women looking at me whilst erect, in Art classes or a the beach - they may have been (or they seemed to be ..) amused, complimentary or disinterested - but never offended or disgusted.
If I'm in a secluded (and relatively private) area, and I'm feeling aroused enough, I can always 'take the matter into my own hand(s)' as it were.
Hi there true scott.
I had the same problem, can retract foreskin when soft but not hard.
The Doctor gave me some exercises to do and although I can't fully retract its 90% there..don't let him get you circumsised. get in touch
Not sure why all the fuss, men get them and we can't really control them. They happen and we go on. What you do with it in public is something else. As long as your not help the issue then let nature take it's course and it will pass. I enjoy seeing a man with an erection now and again. it's human nature.