I TOTALLY agree! If the nudity leads to a natural attraction and the chemistry is there....why NOT indulge in fulfilling those sweet desires? I am so glad I am not bound by the chains of denial of the beauty of unleashed sexuality. While this may seem unlady like to some, if I see something I like and the attraction seems mutual, I go for it..with GUSTO!
Admiration of nudity FIRST, then we'll deal with sex.
For example: seeing blonde_heat's pics, I can admire the body. IF, by some freak of nature, she (and her mate) wish to see MY body and comment on it, we could go from there.
The body is a canvas.. we can take in the beauty without touching or by touching each stroke of the brush on the canvas.. so is sexuality.. one can be aroused without being obnoxious or coming on to someone and this is natural.. and I am sure if around Sky or Extrema, it would be difficult not to alert them to how beautiful they are by my personal arousal, without being forward.. as others mention, it is only natural for the penis to arouse when it sees a woman in the buff.. but I am sure many also have some of the same feelings when they see a beautiful portrait of a nude..
Though I am quite comfortable that nudity can lead to a bonding even if for a moment or so, men and women are naturally attracted to some whom there is that feeling of comfort and yes desire.. so if like Extrema there is that feeling of arousal it is nothing to be ashambed of if mutually found to exist.. and if not the two should accept that and not attempt to force the feelings..
The reason most sites frown on public sex is because we still have to think that it will corrupt minors. Most sites have to protect minors whether we think it is rational or not.
Secondly if sites are just known for their liberalism it attracts the wrong types who ar ehtere for the sex and not for the more altruistic reasons that the site was started for. It also starts to attract large numbers of single men for free sex.
Interestingly sites in the Uk are now splitting into two different camps of adult and naturist.
One day people having sex will be viewed like dogs having sex on the street if that is what you want but it isn't quite here in public sites.
I like sex outdoors and where you want it but we do have others to think about too.
Like skyangel said, it's quite natural to have the thoughts. People all like o think the are attractive. One thing I like about nudism is that I've seen many people who are not pretty gain loads of confidence when they get accepted by other nudists, regardless. Also, the fun of being nude around others knowing the sexuality is there, but its just another part of life, without shame. Kind of makes us all equal in a way. Sky..I love your attitude towards nudity and for the record, you are very hot.
so, finally somone speaks the truth about being a nudist...we look....we see.....and be seen....does anyone walk around naked with others with blindfolds on? get real people......the mind controls everything..from clothed to being naked....amen for E!! well done...
My husband and I have visited more than 20 different nudist resorts around the U.S. Most have sternly worded policies aimed at prohibiting sexual expression. That's why I used the word "paranoid" in my original posting. Seems to fit, based upon my extensive experience.
Also, sunman, I am exactly as I represent myself.
I sure appreciate all the nice remarks about my body, and also the thoughtful responses to this thread.
As a practicing nudist for over 20 years, I have noticed that few things are more erotic than a long, relaxed weekend of social nudity. I'm glad to know that I'm not the only who responds this way!
I have always enjoyed my body being appreciated by all of all ages...We all grow up to be sexual beings and want to share that with others. Being a nudist dad I love for all to look at my bod and phallus...I'm a bodybuilder and take good pride in my body and dont have a problem letting others see me erect as well.
One would have to be totally naive to think that nudist do not have sex at resorts. It's a very important part of my life what I am saying is, I don't go to the resort looking for swingers. I know it does go on and I'm fine with that, if two people / couples seem to connect and agree on it great.All I'm saying is like Vegas what happens here stays here. Enjoy the day
yes you are right, either clothed or not if a person sees another they find attractive they will look, it's only human. me personally i like to have people looking at me, i have found that out by joining this group. i mean no one here cares if I'm naked or not and that allows me to be me. i love it.