I am a nudist. Have been since the day I was born. Works both ways.
I am married. I love my Wife. She is not into nudity. She has no problem with me being friends with women who are. She chooses not to.
If I decide to go to the local resort with a friend,Female, My wife doesn't mind. and yes we always get closer than my clothed friends.
After awhile the women always seem to want sex and more. Then we lose the friendship. Jealousy takes over.
Even when we have friends over,Nude, it always seems to happen.
Hi Everyone - I am not on here very often out getting an all over tan. Come on down to Florida the weather is great. I only check this site about once a week and try to follow things. I haven't been to a nude beach yet so can't comment, but resorts no one has approached me so far about anything. I have joined a singles group that is involved in this area and go to dinners a couple of times a month and have met some nice guys. More guys than gals not complaining. I am looking for someone to go places with hate going alone. If anyone wants someone to hang out with let me know. How can you send a message when they tell you it contains certain words the word they are questioning is A T is that vulgar boy no wonder people don't get on here
After much consideration I have come to the conclusion that the only places you can be guaranteed to meet genuine nudists is in the clubs, landed or non-landed.
Non-landed seem to be more open as to who they accept as members as their rules are more flexible. Membership of these types of clubs also helps singles gain entry to other venues as you have some street cred. You are more likely to find single women also. As these clubs tend to be based around socialising they will have a pretty full-on calender of events. Often they will reciprocate with other landed and non-landed groups in other areas and states thus broadening your kontacs.
It is very hard to find real nudists. It is very difficult as heterosexual male. English is my second language which is also difficult. Many men I talk to are gays. I am not against gay, but not looking to be gay. Women all think this is just for sex. Nudist clubs are very difficult for single man. I would like to meet woman with requirement of no sex just to go to nudist places and not be assumed gay or pervert. I know it is a serotype, but in Europe in much more common.
Trying to meet nudists from on line is perhaps the hardest way to meet. The problem with this site is that so many are not real nudists. What I mean by real nudist is someone who will feel comfortable being nude in a social setting ie a beach or a club. Even a home nudist would be ok. However, many here are not interested in nudism and are here for fun and games. If you look a-t how many are registered on this site versus how many actually post here in the forum, you probably wonder too what the majority of the people are doing here.
I don't know about Soberlady, but most who come to the forum post one or a few times and then leave. You can't really get to know anyone here when it seems that this forum has a continuously revolving door. Most do not seem interested in getting to know others. Such is life here.
Soberlady: You and I chatted a few times, but then we lost touch. I'm neither married (I'm divorced), nor am I only looking for sex. I'm looking for pretty much the same thing that you are - friends first, someone to go to the beaches, resorts, and indoor events with. I do have to agree with the thread though; there aren't too many women on the site who respond to winks or even messages. And here all this time I thought it was just me. LOL. Chuck from Delaware
Great posting. You are in a great area for nudism with so many nudist clubs and a large nudist population. It is true that there are singles (men and women) out there who want to date other singles and get frustrated when others who are married or seperated misrepresent themselves. As for photographs, people post or do not post based upon their own preferences and limitations. Some will not post because they have sensitive jobs or do not have a good photograph worth posting. Others might not post nude photos or might with the face blurred out. It all depends what a person feels comfortable with and whatever that decision is should be respected by others. If the intention is to just chat then anything would be fine. If the intention is to 'trade photos' then obviously posting photos is necessary. Maby just my preference but for now I am happy to chat and share thoughts and ideas with others. Many other AANR / TNS type nudists are also comfortable doing the same.
Hi racee, I am a member of the Free Beaches Australia and recently returned from the ANF convention in Narrabri,NSW. Out of nearly 300 people no single women to my knowledge and only 20 or so single men. It amazes me that out of "hundreds of thousands" on this site a t best there are only ever 25 or so on-line. On one occasion there was me and 1 other guy on-line. As to why some people don't have pictures, I don't have any nor the means to post a t the moment. If others think someone is more genuine simply by having a picture then they have been well and truely suc ked in by a lot in here. I am not refering to this topic! interested in anyone from school age to geriatric, cannot describe themselves nor the person they seek?" Do me a favour. If a photo is all that it takes to convince some, I'll borrow one! Always thought I looked like ummm Tom Cruise but heaps taller!
Here is another females view point. I am a member here but I don't pay the preferred money so when I get a wink I wink back and of course the guy isn't a paying member so I am right back to where I was when I started. I belong to the Tampa Bay Singles Nudists and I am having a ball. Met some real nice guys and they haven't hit on me just had some nice conversation. I made a rule when I became a widow never to get involved with a married or separated man and I have stuck by that. Tampa Bay have single dinners in the area plus most of the resorts have ladies nights. I have just started to go and wonder where all the single ladies are. I am not complaining I get to have all the attention when I am the only women I am loving it. I guess sometimes I am so busy don't get back on here to answer back on the forum. Hope you are all having a great weekend. My picture is posted on my profile but you will never see me nude on a public site. I cherish my privacy. From an fairly new nudist and loving it
Sorry you have had some bad experiences here. To be honest, just about all sites have the same problems ie people who misrepresent themselves or come on line to play games. Wouldn't it be nice if more people would actually list what they are seeking and really mean it? I mean if someone wants friendship with others who are also single, then be upfront about it and don't 'pretend' to be single when you are married. LOL - I can dream can't I? I don't think that just the two of us can change this site but perhaps by writing to this forum we can encourage those few here who honestly want to chat or to meet as friends and go to beaches to come and start talking here on the forum.
I am not sure why folks on here aren't connecting as friends. I think it would be rather awesome to have some friends to go to the beaches etc. and learn more about the many interest in life. I have chatted with a few men and "thought" they were straight up but they were either married and wanted a side thing or they just wanted sex. Maybe you and I can change the direction of this site??? How self centered was that one? LOL I think it would take more than you and I to change it. LOL
You are so right but here is another question. Why does it seem so hard today to make basic friendships? What I mean is the simple kind where you talk, find out what common interests that you share, then go out and share some of those experiences together and enjoy each others company. As far as nudism is concerned, just going off to a a nudist beach and enjoying the day together. Everything today seems to revolve around sex.
Well my friend I am a female nudist doing some wondering myself. "smiles" Real hard finding male nudist that aren't connecting sex to it. Now don't get me wrong<>I love being with a man and making love<>I first want him to be my nudist friend. You know that special person you can go to camps and resorts with learning about each other.
That is the problem here. There are so many ladies on this site and yet so few do post. That is a real shame as how can you ever get to know anyone here (assuming that you do) if you don't share thoughts and ideas on different subjects? Are there any real nudist women on this site???? C'mon ladies, please contribute to this forum and share your ideas.
However, from what I have been reading in the forum, so far it seems that people do file reports but those who run this site are interested in maximizing income and therefore are not so interested in policing this site. It seems that with so many 'members', only a few read or write to the forum. How can you get to know anyone or exchange any ideas if you don't communicate with others? So far it seems that there are quite a few nice guys here but haven't seen many women post so I am still wondering how many of the women here are real nudists?
I have an idea.If real nudists only reply to other messages as nudist.Then we can keep the sexually frustated people a-t bay.When,and if only when,do we see a plea for sex,and only sex.Report them to the administrator.That's what they are there for,aren't they?
I agree with you that there are too many rude and nasty guys spreading filth. However, from what I have seen in my short time here reading the forum topics, there seem to be some really nice guys here who are real and only want to chat. I have looked a-t both guys and gals profiles on this site and so many are obvious fakes who are here to 'play' with others. I wish there was a simpler way to find out who the nice ones are on this site. Any ideas anyone??
Hi, I am a genuine nudist and I live in the Brisbane area.
I would like to hear from others on this site.
I think the low participation from females is that there have been some who have been receiving filth or harrassing e-mails, and have spread the word that a lot of these internet nudist guys are nothing but sleazebags looking for cheap sex any way they can find. This is definitely not on.