We are both waxed and have been for years. Feels great. Waxing has made regrowth almost non existant so only need moderate upkeep. We wax each other using sugar rather than "wax" much easier and costs next to nothing.
Shaved is nice, on both girls and guys. I have a thin strip and it is a great talking point on the beaches I have been to, again for both men and women alike. Someone else has said it (in the uk i think), it gives something to look at and a great ice breaker for discussion.
I have been trimming my pubic hair for a few years now, each time getting shorter to the point of shaving most of it for the last 12 months. Have recently had it all waxed off and now so has my wife had herself waxed.
Have to admit, I/we find it so much better to be free of pubic hair.
Shaved my pubes totally this weekend. LOVE the look and feel, and am going to keep it that way from now on.
However, is there really a right and wrong way? It's down to the individual and their own preferences :-)
Have tried being hairless 'down there', liked the feeling, but found shaving was risky as I have only one arm capable of reasonable control.
For me, hair removal cream worked best, bit time consuming but an interesting exercise.
I dont think being a smoothie means we are more open than anyone else. From a females point-of-view, maybe and only maybe, perhaps we are a little bit more daring or enjoy showing more as being smooth can show more details shall we say than retaining hair down there.
In the end though its all down to personal taste isnt it?
Have been shaving for over 20 years, love the feeling and think that it looks much better than bushes of pubic hair.
Love to see other people and love them to see me without!
Try it, you'll really love it, I promise.