its a sad but true fact that a large % of the people on here are fake. and at their own loss mainly. just because you are a single guy doesnt mean we wont talk to you,but pretending you are a couple will mean we never will. only way round it we have found is by using webcam. even then so sad to keep hearing,oh shes not here AGAIN.if anyone that is genuine whats to chat whatever sex drop us a line aslong as you can prove you are real.please more couples and women as guess what? we have loads of male friends lol . oh and we have met several members off this site that we are now great friends with so it is worth the trouble . happy hunting!
Yeh i think some of these sites use false female profiles to get single guys or "suckers " as they are often known to up grade to expensive memberships. Kind of like the nudist resorts that want to you buy an exspensive membership but prefer you didnt use it , so it is just a bunch of swingers!
it is sad to see that liars are hindering this site from becoming a very good to great site. those who have created this problem do not understand that they are the reason of the mistrust and questioning of every profile that people come across. yes i am a single man, no i am not looking for sex especially from my own gender. i am not here to find a couple for a swinging good time, it would be nice to have a single female nudist that would like to strike up a conversation. i don't mind talking with couples or even straight men, cause that is all that will happen. too bad the webmasters can't eliminate these folks. they should understand that it causes some to no longer want to be paying members.
We have spent some time going through the profiles and to be honest we believe at least 30% are false. There are numerous pics taken straight from the internet, there are certainly many men pretending to be women, Many men have probably posted pics of wives who know nothing about their pics being on the site. I can pretty much guarantee no women here are pretending to be men!!.
We have met some nice couples on this site and hope to meet more. What we prefer to do is to ask for clothed pics of the couple as well as nude, at least we narrow down the fakers, not totally, but at least we tried.
Yes, there are genuine nudists.
But if we want to keep this for 'real' nudists we need to define what nudists are.
Am I a nudist because I don't wear clothes at home?
In the garden?
On a beach?
Am I a nudist despite the fact that I sometimes discuss sex and sexuality with people I meet online?
Does it affect my credentials if a naturist friendship turns into something else?
I'm all for honesty, if someone wants to have a sexual relationship and they want to share an interest in naturism, as long as they aren't explicit in their desires in their profiles, where's the problem?
And if there are young people on here who want to chat with fellow naturists, do you want to drive them away so we die of old age with nobody to follow on?
No, I don't want sex, cyber or otherwise, with a 13 or 14 yr old, but I would like to talk to them about their lives as much as I want to talk to older people who've been nudists for many years.
Hopefully you got the truth before things went too far. Can't understand how people can get their jollies doing these things. Unless they drive some perverse pleasure out trying to hurt other people. And to state his wife doesn't understand him well I think she probably does All too well.
Its these types that really make it so hard for the rest of us that are genuinely just trying to make some nice friends and maybe have something develop into something that can be meaningful and more permanent.
I thought I was a good judge of character and also very careful on here.
recently i came across someone who i thought waa and who said was a *genuine* naturist and from him profile said he was a single father with two girls.
he even has pictures of two young girls on his pic profile!!!
after a few weeks of chatting there were a couple of warning bells and when i asked if he was married he kept saying "no i'm single"
finally he came clean
he was in fact married for 19 years to a wife who did not understand him ( if i'd had a pound for every time someone told me that, i'd be very wealthy by now).
He has NO CHILDREN, and the pics he used were friends children.
so you can understand why people are loosing faith in what is suppose to be a genuine naturist site.
we are looking for our prince. how could anyone stoop so low to get his kicks.
come on naturist lets stand tall there are a few GENUINE ones out there but it only takes one to spoil it for others.
FROM A GENUINE NATURSIT JUST LOOKING FOR PRINCE CHARMING NOT A FROG.
have also come across dubious profiles here and I do agree with all on the photo thing. Another way on the web pictures is that most are also date stamped. I have come across a few supposed from Australia but the photo shows American power outlets on the wall. Think I also tried chatting to paulalq but never got a response. havn't come across any cam girls but have been contacted by a couple of incestuos ones. Which I feel is even worse.
as most who have been in this chatroom for any length of time already know,the majority of people[men} in this room are just fakes.better than calling them liars!!we believe if u want to be in this room it should be a requirement that u post a photo.it doesn't have to be nude but why not?its a site for nudists i thought.if u claim to be a couple post pic of u two together,lame excuses are just obvious giveaways that u r lying!
Yes, there is a lot of cam girls at the moment, typical hiding their profile, being 18-22 yo and seeking men 18-90. I have come across a different case of false profiles. A 12 year old girl pretending to be 18. She gave me all the informations a paedophile would like to have such as pics ( that reveiled her tru age )the beach shge like to go to. I convinced her to delete the profiel and I hope she doesn?t pop up somewhere else. Quite surprising for her to find out this way.
we on the other hand are a genuine family.and have just been accused of being a single male yes it is just male half in picture because she doesnt want as most women have complained about is men gauping at her or the piccies taken and used elsewhere.as our profile explains we are looking for other families for days out and holidays .if we wanted to use this site for other things then we would go to other sites where you can do that stuff but we are genuine and are looking for friends not smut.
swingcat write: Best way to tell is to look at the profile pic, then ask yourself - have you seen it elsewhere before? Does it look too professional to be a profile pic?
Also worth checking is: are the people on different photo's the same? Does the photo match the profile? Sometimes the most stupid ones leave the mark of the website where they took it from on the picture. And stamp size pictures I find suspicious too.
I share quadman's concern here 100%. Unfortunately, any social networking site is prone to its weirdos out posing as single females or couples, just for kicks or for completely devious means. Best way to tell is to look at the profile pic, then ask yourself - have you seen it elsewhere before? Does it look too professional to be a profile pic?
Then there are also profiles which are couples profiles, but which only describe or show pics of the man, surprise surprise. Sorry, but I've been around far too long to be taken in by such profiles, and feel that I can now spot them a mile off.
We should all be on our guard and each of us should help to separate the liars from the genuine folk by reporting any suspicious movement, or profiles, to admin.
well after chatting and sending photos .i realised i was not getting reponse that i wanted,also there is another profile on different site with same photos but different country,and as soon has i asked questions i was blocked,also i agree there are a lot of professional people here who are asking for money