Unfortunately it seems the lack of sincerity and genuinous (sic) is indemic through-out many similar sites. Even those sites that are free, most of those who use the chat rooms just sit and say nothing. Watching TV at the same time perhaps. Only those sites where a person's bonafides can be verified will have genuine nudists. Having said that, that is still no guarantee people will communicate with each other. The notion that nudists are a very friendly fraternity is a myth. We are merely a group within society who prefers to get around starkers. Doesn't mean we have to accept everyone who passes by as long time friends.
That would simply make us hypocrites.
Maybe it's time to move on and not waste any more time or money on something that is little more than a cyber notice board. To those who complain about the alternatives within our midst, you are probably not going to change anything so either ignore them or go elsewhere. If you don't like the picture leave the cinema!
There needs to be much more diversity with those who particpate here. It does seem like just those hunting for sex... Some updates/message boards about where to go in hard to find nudits areas (such as South Carolina) would be most helpful to those of us around non-nudist/hostile areas.
It's true that most people here are only here for sex or proposals that doesn't have anything to do with being nudist.
I have had 1 very nice contact untill now, and I still chat with him very often if not every day. As we live to far away form each other, we didn't meet yet, but that may happen in the future.
Hope many more are having good contacts here and I also hoped to have more of them, but ...
Also, the reactions on the forum are very poor most of the time. If you ask something, you almost never get an answer, but that's how it goes here I think. I still hope it gets better.
Hello all, In the past year has the chat system gotten any better? Has any true nudists actually made any contacts with other like minded friends? I can say this much: I haven't.
80% of the mail I have sent out has gone unanswered. Of the 20% that has been replied to; 10% is scammers looking to trick me out of money. The last10% is people that just want to trade pics, cyber,or play some kind of sick game with no true intentions of ever forming any relationship. Most don't even take the few seconds to look at a profile.
I believe this site only works for couples looking for another Bi-female for sex, Bi females/bi-males, and gays. The only people that this site actually works for is the ones making the money off of paying members.
Having typed this makes me feel a little better. Even still i have no desire to continue trying to make this site work. In the past I have convinced several women to try to use this site, all of them were disappointed after just a few Ims from our standard gold members pushing for instant meetings for sex, and nude pics. Many of these ladies are now former friends, ..My reward for trying to get a few more female members for this site. I have made several comments to C S about this and other problems, (like anything will actually be done) I guess as long as the money keeps rolling in they will be unwilling to do anything.
That's all for now Don
Yes the other site is better for meeting genuine nudists as it requires some type of official and recognized membership to be allowed into that site. There are more safeguards to keep that site safe for nudists and creates an environment that real nudists generally feel more relaxed about sharing partially nude and nude photographs. People there tend to understand and respect other nudists and know that just because you post a nude photo, it does not mean that you are looking for sex or are 'easy'.
Hi Leah I tend to agree with you and while I try not to discriminate, I can't understand why gays, swingers,and any one else with alternative ideas have to constantly invade these sites. They would complain bitterly if str8 nudists were to take over the many other sites available for others to use.
I would very much like to make new friends in other countries in order to visit when travelling but am reluctent as you just don't know who you are talking to. Don't want to travel thousands of miles to a strange place only to find the "friend" is a weirdo and forgot to mention it. It would spoil the holiday not to mention the eliment of danger.
I am wondering if there is any way of encripting photo's to stop them being forwarded or tampered with. People may be a bit more comfortable posting nude pics if there was a guarantee they would not be poached.
That's because this site has become a SEX site.. ;-( Which is a crying shame, that is why women, are not on this site.. I have seen, way to much sexual activity on profiles, that I have no intentions of dishing out my money..to be a member. This is beginning to look like that AdultFriendFinding.. all about SEX. If that is what you are looking for, then place your profile there. This site is suppose to be for the true Nudist.. that is into nudism. Get your act together guys..Then you will get women, that are into nudism. Sex should be discussed privately anyways.. Don't you think? Not for everyone to be expose to it.. on a site like this. Leah45ca
I am not offended by nudity.. LOL Where did that come from? Just because I don't feel this site is for the true nudist.. It seems, to be only about SEX on here. And you wonder why women, are not on this site..Well, if men would stop going in that direction, then maybe you would see more women on here. So come on guys.. Get your act together. Real nudists know, that being NUDE is not about SEX. It is about acceptance, of who we are ..from the inside out. Accepting of our bodies, of what GOD gave to us.
Please read my first comment ever, on any message board.. back in July 2003. I got responses from all over the world, from real nudists that agreed with what I said.
To answer your question.. Because this site focuses to much about SEX.. that I don't feel comfortable in doing so...However, I belong to another nudist dating site, that is affiliated with AANR, which I am sure, you know what that stands for.. if your a nudist. On that site, I feel very comfortable being there partially nude or fully nude. Until this dating site, gets there act together.. I won't be nude on here. Sorry!!! But that is the way it will be. Hope, that answers your question.
If you want to see what I posted back in July 2003. I expressed my feelings very openly on what I thought, when I signed up about NF.. I am not a paid member now, because of what I have seen on this site. Leah
Noted that guy mentions Privates as being very small. True Nudists do not worry about their size. Mine is above average but that means nothing to most true women\male sun worshipers!
I was considering joining this site but I see too many unhappy people. Various engines not working. No way to browse\search by local. Most services not in working order. Cannot even cancel when desired.
I just can't wait to get the damn clothes of when I get home from work.
I really enjoy going to the various nudist resorts here in Michigan and would love to get to some in other states as well. I am looking for female company to visit the places here in Michigan.
Looking for any maryland or dc nudist to hang out with and or chat online with. I'm seperating from the wife and will have my own apt in a month or two for those who want to just hang out nude att my place. Male of Female, come one come all.